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As I walked down towards home one day, I heard someone calling my name. I turned back to see who was there. It was an
old friend of mine walking briskly towards me. He had a heavy bag on
his back. "Relax. What are you doing out here at this time? Its eleven
o'clock in the night" I asked. "Just returning from office yar"
He said with a very low voice. He looked really stressed out and tired.
"I joined this new company a few months ago", he continued, "it was not
expected to me that they'd take me. I had applied very casually. But I
guess it was my destiny to work with them" "Destiny??; since when did
you start believing in destiny dude?" I asked. "Yeah it is like that"
reluctant, seemed he to discuss more about it. "Alright Alright. But
tell me what did you do after college? What is the nature of your
work?" I still wanted to talk the same subject. But I took a long and
smoother route to the destination.
This friend of mine was very brilliant. Studious, I should say. Being
amongst the top 3 students was like the whole definition of academic
excellence for him. Obviously so, we never had been in touch really. He
then told me that he had done some professional courses and had got
some management diploma certificates. "Do you still meet those college
friends?" I asked. "Not really. All of them have got so busy in their
own stuff these days. There was this guy who stayed in my town that I
used to be in touch with. But now he too has got a job and has become a
like myself. So now there is practically no one whom I'm in touch with. Its such a pain."
He did not want to talk about his job really, but he was so affected by it
that unknowingly he was coming back to the same topic no matter what.
"Why do you have to work for such long hours? Is it sort of a peak
season for your company or.." "Its not about seasons. Its about
reasons. Everybody has a reason." "What reason do you have then?" I got
a little aggressive. "I need money. I need money for myself, for my
family. I have to support my parents. I want to get married to a girl
but she wants me to earn some freaking sum of amount every month. I
cant have all that If I don't work like this" He continued advocating his own helplessness.
"Listen, it doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your personal life for that. What are you going to do with all that money when you don't have time at all to spend it? What is the point in returning home with
no energy to even smile at the people waiting for you there?" "Duh" I
guess he had no answer to this. In fact, he had, but he could not
accept it. He abruptly said that he had to go some other way and took a
turn. And I kept walking down the main street thinking about this.
People actually submit to some stupid rules and cultures established by the
community at large. I mean, who likes to come home every night at such
a time where there is no one on the streets except for some stray dogs;
at such a time when everyone at home is either asleep or just forcibly
keeping eyes open to see you arrive and then they could go to bed
peacefully. People still accept situations like it and live like that.
What is amazing that they are still proud of it. Proud of the money
that they 'earn'. Proud of the 'positions' that they have.
I felt pity for him. More importantly, for his complaining tone. If a
person does work like that, he should not complain. If one really
doesn't like it, then he shouldn't just complain, he should do
something about it. The thing is, people fear. People fear to be real.
They fear that if they do not do the things that the majority of the
world does, they will not get the things that the majority of the world
gets. And that is why, they continue to live 'like' someone. They
continue to dream to be 'like' someone. It is not a great thing
honestly, to be 'like' someone. Greatness comes with uniqueness. If eiffel tower is great, it is because there is only one eiffel tower in the world. As simple as that.
My friend was not the only one who submitted to such undesirable work
cultures. Its a stream. A stream of people in the world who work like
this for whatever reasons they might have and be unhappy about it at
the end of the day. There is
no point in knowing if there is really so much of work to do or not.
Its all about keeping a balance between work and life which many
employers claim to provide but the reality does not really match with
their claims. People should never just accept things like that. One
should know when to refuse. One must refuse to work like that. If one
person does it, there will be five other people backing him up. And I
believe working conditions are much better in developed countries. Work
gets over at five thirty and people actually Have a LIFE there....
I was really thinking too much. I was annoyed. Even I had a heavy bag on